The app that changes everything
The average person will spend 11 years on their phone.

Most of it alone. Most of it forgettable.
We built something about that.

Scroll to find out
First — a question

How old
are you?

Your personal benchmark is calculated from this. No data stored. Just the truth about your generation's relationship with their phones.

14–24
Gen Z
25–34
Millennial
35–44
Elder Millennial
45–54
Gen X
55+
Boomer+
People your age spend
6.2 hrs
on their phone. Every single day.
That's
94 days
of your year. Gone.
And the loneliest years aren't when you're old.
They're right now.
The Harvard Study of Adult Development — 85 years of research — found one thing above all else predicts a long, happy life.
The quality of your
relationships.
Not your career. Not your income. Not your feed.
The metric that changes everything
Real
Hours.

Not screen time. Not step counts. The actual hours you spend present with the people who matter.

Togather measures this automatically. You don't log anything. You just live.

Presence = Time × Attention
2h
Time together
×
80%
Phone down
=
1.6
Real Hours
2h together, phone down the whole time → 2.0 RH
4h together, half the time scrolling → 2.0 RH
1h together, fully present → 1.0 RH
Harvard data: quality relationships = #1 predictor of happiness and longevity. Dunbar's research: humans maintain ~5 truly intimate relationships. Togather helps you invest in those five.
The cost

How much
life
are you losing?

Move the slider. See the real numbers.

4
61
Days lost this year
3.6k
Conversations you'll miss
9.3
Years over your lifetime
18
Hours you'll never get back
What you could have done instead
📚
6 books read cover to cover
🏃
2 marathons trained and finished
🍳
730 meals cooked from scratch
🎸
24 songs learned on an instrument
🌍
2 trips fully planned and taken
But here's the flip
1,460 Real Hours
waiting to be reclaimed.
That's what Togather gives back.
The mechanic

How it works

Four steps
01
Setup
Lock Your Feed
Choose which apps get locked. Instagram, TikTok, X, YouTube — all of them or just the ones that own you most.
02
Daily life
Togather Runs Quiet
No nudges. No timers. Just the absence of the scroll. Togather runs in the background, waiting.
03
The unlock
Someone Shows Up
A friend with Togather gets close. Bluetooth detects you're together. Both phones unlock. Mutually. Instantly.
04
The point
Scroll If You Want
But now you're with someone. So maybe you don't. Every moment together builds your Real Hours. That's the whole idea.

Loneliness isn't
a feeling.
It's a design flaw.

Social media forgot what social means. Every platform optimizes for time spent alone on a feed. Togather optimizes for time spent with the people who actually matter. That's it. That's the whole thing.

Early access — limited spots

Your Real
Hours
start now.

Join the waitlist. When Togather launches, you get the download link first. Let's get togather.

Free forever for early members. No spam.
You're #847 on the list
You're in.
We'll send you the download link the day Togather launches.
In the meantime — go be with someone.